I agree - Edward was pretty controlling, almost treating Bella like a child in not allowing her to see Jacob. I think his reaction was fairly "human," although most guys would do it out of jealousy rather than out of concern for the g i r l 's safety. When you think about it, if you truly believed a friend of yours was going somewhere that they would be in real danger, and you couldn't talk them out of it, I think most people would be willing to go to extremes to try to protect them. Edward did redeem himself when he figured out that A) she was safe with Jacob, and B) that he was hurting her by acting the way he did.
The other thing that I liked about Jacob is the way he wouldn't just give in to Bella's childish demands. I loved it when he would tell her to grow up or give him a break. I wish Edward WASN'T always so willing to baby her. But what can I say - with all his flaws, my heart still belongs to Edward. ;) I hope Stephenie is good to them all in Breaking Dawn.... SATURDAY woo hoo!
-Sanya the duck
-Annegirl
I know - it might be kinder to send our families away for a few days. :)
-Sanya the duck
My opinion of Edward changed when I saw him work so hard to change antagonistic feelings about Jacob. He got to the point where he could see that Bella was safe with him, then working so hard in the alliance between the wolves and the Cullens to find a way to work together for the good of all (he actually worked harder on this than Jacob did at first), and then later seeing the feelings of love Bella had for Jacob and allowing her to search her feelings and decide between who she really wanted.
-Bookworm
That's true. He was a good sport about the Jacob thing in the end. That would have to have been really hard for him.
-Annegirl