Yes in most cases. She seemed to have had the worst ones. I think it is because she had a feeling inside that it shouldn't be this way. She was always fighting and didn't just let it be like so many of the other women did. I appreciate that about her. I do think she was racist toward white people and sometimes it isn't recognized when it goes the other way. The difference in her case though is that she had reasons for it where as the women in her town that were racist toward her did not.
I do think that her outrage was justified. She was trampled on by white people for so long. However, we should look at it a little different. Now we look at racism in the 20th century as an outrage. Back then, though, the thinking was different. Many people actually thought that you could catch diseases by sitting on the same toilet seat as black people. (Doctors used to recommend cigarettes, for heaven's sake!) Times change and we learn and grow. I think we need to not be so quick to judge. "As I have loved you, love one another."
Yes. Not many people could continually take the high road like Aibileen did. Most people eventually lose trust. There are people I no longer trust because they have failed me time and again. I do not hate them, but I do not trust them either. I think that is okay. I do agree that Minny was probably racist and I agree that I get frustrated when people consider racism to only go in one direction. Anyone who hates someone based on their race, is racist. I have no tolerance for it, but in that time and that place, I do not fault Minny for it. She was horribly wronged repeatedly and it would have been pretty hard to rise above it.
She was very outspoken and that cost her jobs. but I think she was trying to speak out not only against the wrongs she could see done to her and others but was also living with a man who abused her. She gained courage to say enough to her husband when she finally had the courage to support "the cause" and speak out. She also provided a way to protect her friends. I am glad that she developed a relationship with Celia and her husband (although it was scary at first).
We are a group of sisters, mothers, daughters, cousins, aunts, grandmothers, and friends coming together because of our shared love of reading.
Annegirl
Favorite books are the Anne series and Emily series by L.M Montgomery, the Harry Potter series by JK Rowling, Timeline and Jurassic Park by Michael Crichton,just about everything by Shannon Hale (especially Goose Girl and Book of A Thousand Days), the Fablehaven series by Brandon Mull, the Eragon series by Christopher Paolini, the Hunger Games trilogy and Gregor series by Suzanne Collins, the Mortal Instruments series by Cassandra Clare, and Leviathan series by Scott Westerfeld. I add to my favorites list all the time!
Bookworm
Favorite books include Gone With the Wind, the Harry Potter series, Pride and Prejudice, Emma, Persuasion, Sense and Sensibility, Hunt for Red October, The Patriarch (George Washington), Those Who Love, and The Presidents Lady
Stampin_Maniac
Favorite books are the Twilight series, any by Mary Higgins Clark, Outlander by Diana Gabaldon, autobiographies, and The Work and the Glory series.
Julie
Favorite books include...East of Eden and all other John Steinbeck works, 1984, The Hunchback of Notre Dame, Les Miserables, Anna Karenina, Rebecca, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, Memoirs of a Geisha, Charlotte's Web (and lots of other children's fiction novels)
Holly
Favorite books include Emma, the Harry Potter series, The Little Prince, Taming of the Shrew, Ender's Game, To Kill a Mockingbird, the Twilight series, A Christmas Carol, The Chronicles of Narnia, The Help, The Hunger Games, The Screwtape Letters, OPJB, and all of Bill Peet's children's books.
Deenie Bug
Favorite books are The Quicksilver Pool, Jane Eyre, Persuasion, Pride and Prejudice, Moonraker's Bride, Window on the Square, The Secret Garden, Harry Potter series, Lord of the Rings, and Agatha Christie books.
Wendy
Favorite books are A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, Oh the places you'll go, 1776, Little Women, Persuasion, The Chronicles of Narnia, Anne of Green Gables, Little House, Christy, and A Lantern in her hand
BreeAnn
Favorite books are To Kill A Mockingbird, Little House on the Prairie, The Notebook, Twilight series, Jane Eyre, Little Women, The Work and the Glory series, anything by Mary Higgins Clark, and A child called it.
Sanya the Duck
Favorite books are Pride and Prejudice, The Good Earth, The Count of Monte Cristo, Harry Potter series, Twilight series, Anne of Green Gables, These is my Words, The Chronicles of Narnia, the Work and the Glory series, and The Kingdom and the Crown series.
Keddy-Weddy
G-Mama
Favorite books are Matilda, Pride and Prejudice, Rebecca, The Hiding Place, The Outsiders, Dealing with Dragons series, Twilight series, The Lord of the Rings series, The Thirteenth Tale, and Emily of New Moon
Stephanie
Favorite books include The Twilight series
Mel
Hare_Bear
Favorite books are the Twilight series and the Harry Potter series
4 comments:
Yes in most cases. She seemed to have had the worst ones.
I think it is because she had a feeling inside that it shouldn't be this way. She was always fighting and didn't just let it be like so many of the other women did.
I appreciate that about her.
I do think she was racist toward white people and sometimes it isn't recognized when it goes the other way. The difference in her case though is that she had reasons for it where as the women in her town that were racist toward her did not.
I do think that her outrage was justified. She was trampled on by white people for so long. However, we should look at it a little different. Now we look at racism in the 20th century as an outrage. Back then, though, the thinking was different. Many people actually thought that you could catch diseases by sitting on the same toilet seat as black people. (Doctors used to recommend cigarettes, for heaven's sake!) Times change and we learn and grow. I think we need to not be so quick to judge. "As I have loved you, love one another."
Yes. Not many people could continually take the high road like Aibileen did. Most people eventually lose trust. There are people I no longer trust because they have failed me time and again. I do not hate them, but I do not trust them either. I think that is okay. I do agree that Minny was probably racist and I agree that I get frustrated when people consider racism to only go in one direction. Anyone who hates someone based on their race, is racist. I have no tolerance for it, but in that time and that place, I do not fault Minny for it. She was horribly wronged repeatedly and it would have been pretty hard to rise above it.
She was very outspoken and that cost her jobs. but I think she was trying to speak out not only against the wrongs she could see done to her and others but was also living with a man who abused her. She gained courage to say enough to her husband when she finally had the courage to support "the cause" and speak out. She also provided a way to protect her friends. I am glad that she developed a relationship with Celia and her husband (although it was scary at first).
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